While Carbonda does seem deliver the most consistent quality, it's still a chinese frame. Most major bike brands have dedicated quality control person onsite to catch these things. We don't get that at this price point.
Several other reports are in this thread of linkage/shock issues, especially on the regular (non-SL) version. To be fair, these are some of the least visually inspectable defects.
I think a lot of us like Carbonda because of the quality of the carbon work. Not too much resin, very clean on the interior.
You definitely got unlucky, that sucks. At least they usually respond to defect claims. Some manufactures just ignore you.
They will probably make you saw the frame in half before sending you a new front triangle and it will probably take a long time.
As for the paint, Carbonda paint used to be better. Ask for a paint refund. My FM1002 had the same flakey issue.