I started with a full XX1 around the same time as you.
Cleaning and lubing my chain after every ride(yes, every... and 3 to 5 times a week now) with Finish line too, but the wet version.
And changing my chain about 3 times a year.
My first ring, the SRAM 28 didn't last long( teeth making hooks like your picture after just 3 months ).
The SRAM bottom bracket died at the same period too. And was replaced by a BBInfinite.
Then I took a 30 spiderless from Chromag, it lasted 5 months, before making hooks too.
Then the beautiful oval Absolute black 32.
At the same time, my chain jumped, under load, from the 4 smaller sprockets of my XX1 cassette, it was worn out.
I concluded my rings were too small, and took finally an oval Absolute black 34.
Then I broke my rear XX1 derailleur(an unlucky branch broke the composite cage that is not replaceable).
Because of the price, I moved to an XTR derailleur, and don't regret it( I noticed yesterday the bottom pulley is worn out though).
I used 3 XX1 chains, broke 2! ( I relax the load when shifting )
Then an X1.
And finally switched to KMC X11 SL chains.
Compared to you, a disaster
But now it looks finally stable.
The Absolute black ring, BBInfinite BB, KMC X11 chain and the XTR derailleur are still holding strong.