Late to the party here, but for me the preferred road and gravel gearing only varies in the rear.
I run Sram AXS 48/32 with a 10-36 on gravel--this is enough top end for me to rip it in the flats and low enough that I've yet to want more. Crucially, it also puts my most-used gear combo, the 48/15, pretty central on the cassette. If my smallest gear was an 11t, I would probably run a 50/34, but then I would also be one gear short for climbing.
On the road I run Sram AXS 48/32 with a 10-33. Again, there's more than enough bailout when climbing, and enough top end that I rarely use the 10t. One issue is that I use the 12t a lot when going for it on the flats--so moving to a 50/34 is probably something that's in the cards for me sooner rather than later as that would give me about an extra half gear.