I'm coming back to check the forum almost daily to see if one of the new 57mm tire clearance frames has an updated geometry chart because part of me apparently refuses to accept that the geometry charts are correct. Uber short reach here, super high BB there,... they all seem to have a flaw at least for what I (and I'd say the majority of riders) am looking for. The only ones so far that get close are the XMCS aero gravel (but front chainring clearance is a concern and price is more than I'd expect for a factory direct chinese frame, even if more premium) and the SP cycle G028 (but it's SP cycles and QC concerns are real ((look at that fork that was posted on that thread)).
I'm starting to believe that I'm the problem here.