...wouldn't it be nice to have a huge database with all available component options to choose from? with all weights? ...
r2-bike.com weight themselves almost all what they sell , and you can sort by weight.
Say you look for a stem, sort it by weight, and go down, until you reach what your wallet is ready to pay.
bike24.com, and
bike-component.de have generally the constructor's weight, but no sorting option.
For older or second hand components, there is a list of components on Weight Weenies' site, but I'm not sure it is updated regularly.
Then it's quite obvious this happened. With an electrically conducive medium like tubeless milk (electrolyte) there is a electrochemical corrosion going on. The Aluminum has a lower valence than the carbon so there is a constant ions transport from aluminum to carbon.
Can't the quality of anodisation help ?
Along the years, I've had dissolved PILAR nipples, but the black SAPIM never did that.