I'm all legs, short upper body, narrow shoulders, and low flexibility. I need a lot of stack, and very little reach. Pretty much my only option is a gravel frame, with a short stem (90mm max) flipped up.
Aero bikes don't work for me, as I'd need a huge amount of spacers, and a really short stem, which would make the bike unstable. I really need the long wheelbase and slacker angles of a gravel bike to offset my short stem/narrow handlebar combination. Then again, I live in Flanders, so I want bigger tyres anyway to cushion all the bad roads.