Wide bars will make the reach problem even worse. Have you ridden wide drops before? Personally, I'm very comfortable on 40cm gravel bars with slight flare, and 740-760mm flat bars with some backsweep. The flat bars I ride most have 11deg backsweep where most bars have more like 6-7, helps keep the wrist angle a bit more in check. 44cm drops with medium flare (Ritchey Venturemax, don't remember the flare) were very uncomfortable for me. I've ridden a bike around the parking lot with PNW bars before, maybe they were the 48cm's, and it just felt ridiculous to me. You may have a different experience though. It seems to me like you should just be on a gravel bike that takes over 50mm tires and put a gravel fork on it.